近日，我相当活跃与积极地在Facebook上寻找和联络久违了的小学，中学，童军时期，ITE和UniSIM的同学和朋友。成绩相当不错， 目前已有十多名跟我联系上。
最值得一提的，并且让我兴奋不已就是找到了我的第二任男朋友-阿鹏。分手至今有15年了， 可是对他的印相和愧疚依然记忆忧新。
通过童军活动而认识了来自另一所学校的阿鹏。他小我一年级， 可是因两校的童军友谊关系超好， 因此就经常在一块儿举办活动，而彼此变得熟络起来。恰巧他的相貌跟我当时迷恋的偶像长得相似，所以便渐渐地对他有好感。可是， 他当时喜欢和追求的对象却是我的junior. 这是众所周知的。我只好收拾起我那颗破碎的心，继续默默地暗恋着他。
毕业以后，我有幸被他校的男童军团邀请协助开办女童军团，也因此又有机会和他见面。当从其他男童军口中探知他当时已经没有女朋友了，我的心情是万般地雀跃！
终于，我鼓起勇气，决定向他表白。于是，乘着圣诞节，在圣诞卡上的最右角下，我写上了‘你是我的唯一’。可是，在把卡片寄出后，我开始感到不安和后悔， 担心万一他对我没兴趣， 那么，再跟他见面不就很尴尬吗？
谢天谢地，老天是疼我的。 他有回应了。记得在他的学校那天，他靠近我，试图牵了我的手！ 我真的太开心了！
拍拖的日子过得好愉快。他在情人节送花给我，真是让我受宠若惊！记得当时我在面包店打工，他会特地来接我。下班后，带我去看电影。面包店的老板和老板娘老在我面前也经常夸奖他。
可是，好景不常在。 我们只维持了大概两个月，好不容易建立的关系被我给搞砸了。
就在一位同学的生日会上，我认识了D君。从那天起，D君对我很殷勤，人长得高，简直就是天生一副模特儿的身架。我背着阿鹏赴了D君的约， 去了他朋友在Pasir Ris 的Chalet. 当时的我，还真不知道哪条经不对，竟然会背叛阿鹏！
Chalet 那晚除了吃烧烤，玩牌，聊天之外，并没有什么事情发生。 只是凌晨要离开时，他在我的颈部给了一个很深的吻， 结果原来是个‘咖喱鸡’。 衣领怎样遮都遮不了。这下把我给害残了！
那天，我过得很痛苦。因为在面包店里，人人对我指指点点。疼惜我的老板和老板娘在知道那个‘咖喱鸡’不是阿鹏经手时，便把我痛骂了一顿！我当时知道错了，所以没脸见阿鹏，更不敢和他见面以免让他看到那个吻痕。
阿鹏当时已觉事有蹊跷， 加以追问。于是，在羞愧之下，我隐瞒事实，说了个不确实的理由后，直接提出分手！ 就这样，我们结束了！
或许因为当时还有D君陪伴，所以不会对阿鹏有任何眷恋。
在经历了再几段感情之后，最终找到了归宿，组织了家庭，可是总还是无法对阿鹏的这段感情给忘怀。脑子里就是会有这么一个角落偏偏要把这段记忆给存放住。或许就是要我永远记住这一段美好又最愧疚的往事吧！
如今，再次联系上他，知道他还过得很好，真的开心！
还没正式问他，不过看起来应该还是单身。 希望他早日找到他的另一半。。。。也希望我们友谊永固！
p.s : 如果我的脸皮真的够厚的话，好想问他，听听他当时被我抛弃的想法和心情。可是真难以启齿。。。
July 3, 2008
June 30, 2008
Composition Writing
Yesterday afternoon, Dad bought 2 sets of McDonalds' Happy Meals for tea-break while we were on our way to the Pasir Panjang Wholesale Centre. GK were happy with the toy collection of Po, the panda and they made a request to have McDonalds' again for their dinner so that they could collect Tai Lung. Dad agreed.So, around 8 pm, we went down to the restaurant and they collected the toys as what they had wanted. When we were done with the meal, I cleared the table and brought out the school assignments which GK had to complete over the weekend. It was on Composition writing.
In the previous 2 school terms, GK were supposed to look at the given picture and write 5 sentences. But starting this term, it is going to be challenging as they are required to look at the picture and write at least 50 words.
So this term's first assignment was a picture showing a family having a picnic at the beach. I coached K while Dad coahed G.
Here's an interesting dialogue between Dad, G and I when G was about to complete his writing:
G : Okay, Papa, I write finished.
D : But you need to have 50 words. Now got how many words?
G : Must count?
D : Ya, then you know how many words you have written.
So G started counting; 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, ......, 46, 47, 48.
G : Only 48.
D : Then, it' s not enough. Need to write some more words.
G : How many more words I need huh?
D : At least 2 more.
G : Orh. Then write 'That's all.'
I : How come you write 'That's all.'?
G : Papa said 2 more words. 'That's all" (as he counted his fingers), 2 words mah.
I : Cannot. This is about story writing, so you must end your story properly.
G : But I write all the things finished already (he meant he has already described about what all the people in the picture were doing), nothing to write already. So, that's all, can?
Dad and I looked at each other, and we laughed.
In the end, with Dad's help, G wrote another sentence with around 8 more words to end his story....
June 23, 2008
End of my June Vacation!
Today is the day for the school re-opening. That will mean also that I have to diligently supervise my kids' schoolwork liao... GK have been looking forward to this day, to meet their teachers and classmates, to have pocket money to spend buy food for recess, and also to go to the bookshop...I can feel their excitement!
I ended my June vacation with a trip to Malacca for our dept outing on 20 - 21 June. There were a total of 24 of us (some brought their families). Having travelled to Malacca for umpteen times and staying in only 3 - 4 star hotels, this trip's stay in Equatorial Hotel was my 1st time in a 5 star hotel. It is ideally situated beside the new shopping mall - Dataran Palawan, nearby to Mahkota Parade and also within walking distance to the Red Square and Jonker Street.
Upon arrival on the 1st day, the tour guide brought us to the Bee Farm. Then we had lunch (at our own cost) in the city area. Those stalls in kopi-shops sold delicious famous hor-funs, and for me, I tried the Hakka Yong Tau Foo. Cheap and good!
Around 2.30 pm, we checked in the hotel. All of us were allocated rooms in various , i.e. 10th, 11th, 13th and 14th floor.
At around 3 pm, most of them were already down at the lobby, ready to explore the city and shopping malls.
By 6.45 pm, we gathered at the lobby, waiting for our coach to bring us to Nyonya Suan for dinner. The dinner was a treat from my boss' own pocket, and the food served were nice also.
At 8.30 pm, most of us were already at Jonker Street for the night market. It took me 1 hour and 15 mins to cover the street. In between the walk, I did stop to look at the items that were on sale, especially those cute little hamsters and the doggies (eg. Pekinese, Shin Tzu, Chihuahua).
I also stopped for some while to watch the singing by some performers on the stage.
Before heading back to the hotel on foot, most of us went up to Carrefour to shop and get some cold beverages and snacks to bring back to the hotel room.
The next following day, between 8 am to 9 am, we had our buffet breakfast at the Seri Nyonya Restnt (3rd floor).
Upon checking out at 9.30 am, one of the colleagues who stayed on the 10th floor, mentioned that she was together in the lift with TCS stars - Xiang Yun, Edmund and their children, who were staying on the same floor as her. Too bad, we missed them as by then most of us were already in the coach, so didn't see them coming down...
We had a good morning walk near the Red Square to see the Melaka Tree, and also to see the St Paul's Church. Due to the hot sun, I noticed that after the climbing up and down the hill, everyone was already panting and perspire like hell....
Next we headed for the Tan Kim Hock to buy local products and then to Jonker Street for our own lunch. Most of us had lunch at the Ho Kee Chicken Rice and thereafter, some of us proceeded to No. 88 for our dessert - Chendol.
By 1.15 pm, we were all on our coach, ready to make our way back home. In between, we stopped at Yong Peng YoYo Local Products to take our toilet break, make our purchases for some more of the M'sia local products, eg. the Muar Otah-otah, Purple-colour Dragonfruit, etc.
We reached our office building at around 5.30 pm, and when everyone got off the bus, I could see the satisfaction looks for most of us, with their big and small bags of purchases... it was indeed 满载而归！
I ended my June vacation with a trip to Malacca for our dept outing on 20 - 21 June. There were a total of 24 of us (some brought their families). Having travelled to Malacca for umpteen times and staying in only 3 - 4 star hotels, this trip's stay in Equatorial Hotel was my 1st time in a 5 star hotel. It is ideally situated beside the new shopping mall - Dataran Palawan, nearby to Mahkota Parade and also within walking distance to the Red Square and Jonker Street.
Upon arrival on the 1st day, the tour guide brought us to the Bee Farm. Then we had lunch (at our own cost) in the city area. Those stalls in kopi-shops sold delicious famous hor-funs, and for me, I tried the Hakka Yong Tau Foo. Cheap and good!
Around 2.30 pm, we checked in the hotel. All of us were allocated rooms in various , i.e. 10th, 11th, 13th and 14th floor.
At around 3 pm, most of them were already down at the lobby, ready to explore the city and shopping malls.
By 6.45 pm, we gathered at the lobby, waiting for our coach to bring us to Nyonya Suan for dinner. The dinner was a treat from my boss' own pocket, and the food served were nice also.
At 8.30 pm, most of us were already at Jonker Street for the night market. It took me 1 hour and 15 mins to cover the street. In between the walk, I did stop to look at the items that were on sale, especially those cute little hamsters and the doggies (eg. Pekinese, Shin Tzu, Chihuahua).
I also stopped for some while to watch the singing by some performers on the stage.
Before heading back to the hotel on foot, most of us went up to Carrefour to shop and get some cold beverages and snacks to bring back to the hotel room.
The next following day, between 8 am to 9 am, we had our buffet breakfast at the Seri Nyonya Restnt (3rd floor).
Upon checking out at 9.30 am, one of the colleagues who stayed on the 10th floor, mentioned that she was together in the lift with TCS stars - Xiang Yun, Edmund and their children, who were staying on the same floor as her. Too bad, we missed them as by then most of us were already in the coach, so didn't see them coming down...
We had a good morning walk near the Red Square to see the Melaka Tree, and also to see the St Paul's Church. Due to the hot sun, I noticed that after the climbing up and down the hill, everyone was already panting and perspire like hell....
Next we headed for the Tan Kim Hock to buy local products and then to Jonker Street for our own lunch. Most of us had lunch at the Ho Kee Chicken Rice and thereafter, some of us proceeded to No. 88 for our dessert - Chendol.
By 1.15 pm, we were all on our coach, ready to make our way back home. In between, we stopped at Yong Peng YoYo Local Products to take our toilet break, make our purchases for some more of the M'sia local products, eg. the Muar Otah-otah, Purple-colour Dragonfruit, etc.
We reached our office building at around 5.30 pm, and when everyone got off the bus, I could see the satisfaction looks for most of us, with their big and small bags of purchases... it was indeed 满载而归！
June 18, 2008
What a Wonderful Vacation!
Eagle Ranch Resort - Port Dickson
Went convoying with the Avante Club to the Eagle Ranch Resort, Port Dickson. There were a total of 10 cars joining in for this 3D2N trip.
The whole trip was relaxed, except for the hot sun....
Pictures can be found in this link:
http://luvina76.multiply.com/photos/album/6/Eagle_Ranch_Resort_Port_Dickson
A brief itinerary of what I had in this resort:
Day 1 :
2.30 pm - Arrived at the Resort, proceeded for Buffet Lunch at the Melting Pot
3.30 pm - Checked in to my room (first time staying in an airconditioned Bandwagon!)
6.30 pm - Gathered at the Melting Pot for Buffet Dinner
7.30 pm - Free & Easy
9.30 pm - Drove out to the somewhere near the town area for shopping (pasar malam!)
11.00 pm - Drove to a Bistro Cafe at the Tiara Beach Resort for Coffee and listening to Live Band
12 midnight - Return to Resort (zzzzzz)
Day 2 :
8.30 am - Gathered at the Melting Pot for Buffet Breakfast
9.45 am - Gathered at the Go Kart for the Go Kart Competition
11.00 am - Went for Archery
12.oo noon - Gathered at the Melting Pot for Buffet Lunch
1.30 pm - Assembled to have group photo taking before leaving to Nilai
2 .15 pm - Leave for Nilai to meet up with the members of the Avante Club of KL
3. 45 pm - Convoyed to Nilai 3 for shopping (Nilai 3 - similar to our local Geylang Serai)
7.00 pm - Convoyed back to Resort
7.30 pm - Gathered at the Poolside for a BBQ Buffet Dinner (yummy! The most delicious and fulfilling meal of the stay!)
10.00 pm - Gathered at the Watering Hole for Drinks and Card Games (chor-dai-di)
1.00 am - zzzzz
Day 3 :
8.30 am - Gathered at the Melting Pot for Buffet Breakfast
10.30 am - Departed for Genting on our own
Tata!
For more information on the Eagle Ranch Resort:
http://www.eagleranch.com.my/
Genting
15 June (Sunday)
12.30 pm - Arrived at Genting First World Hotel (met Gavin and his family, so coincidence!)
3.30 pm - Met up with Brother and SIL for hotel check-in (T2 #25-950)
6.00 pm - Had Buffet Dinner at Kampong Restnt, Resort Hotel
7.30 pm - Free & Easy at Monte Carlo Casino (met Henry, my ex-colleague. what a coincidence too!)
4.30 am - Queued up at the FWH Registration counter to take queue number to check in for my another room after 12 noon (so kia-su!) cos the room (#25-950) which I booked through the website was only available for a one-night stay, so have to book through AXS to get a room for my 2nd night stay
5.00 am - zzzzzz
16 June (Monday)
9.30 am - Breakfast at FWH Cafe
12.00 noon - Checked out
1.00 pm - Checked in another hotel room (T2 #27 - 805)
1.30 pm - Free & Easy at Casino
6.00 pm - Went Mushroom Farm for Dinner
8.00 pm - Free & Easy at Casino
3.00 am - zzzzzz
17 June (Tuesday)
9.30 am - Breakfast at FWH Cafe
11.00 am - Checked out
12.30 pm - Departed for Malacca
2.45 pm - Arrived at Malacca
3.00 pm - Lunch at Ho Kee Hainan Chicken Rice and No. 88 Jonker Street for Assam Laksa and Chendol (Very yummy yummy!)
5.00 pm - Shopped at Tan Kim Hock
5.30 pm - Departed for home
9.00 pm - Arrived at Home
To conclude, the 5-day trip was really relaxing and wonderful! Looking forward to my coming trip with my colleagues to Malacca on this Friday! Yippeee!
Great Holidays for June 2008!
Went convoying with the Avante Club to the Eagle Ranch Resort, Port Dickson. There were a total of 10 cars joining in for this 3D2N trip.
The whole trip was relaxed, except for the hot sun....
Pictures can be found in this link:
http://luvina76.multiply.com/photos/album/6/Eagle_Ranch_Resort_Port_Dickson
A brief itinerary of what I had in this resort:
Day 1 :
2.30 pm - Arrived at the Resort, proceeded for Buffet Lunch at the Melting Pot
3.30 pm - Checked in to my room (first time staying in an airconditioned Bandwagon!)
6.30 pm - Gathered at the Melting Pot for Buffet Dinner
7.30 pm - Free & Easy
9.30 pm - Drove out to the somewhere near the town area for shopping (pasar malam!)
11.00 pm - Drove to a Bistro Cafe at the Tiara Beach Resort for Coffee and listening to Live Band
12 midnight - Return to Resort (zzzzzz)
Day 2 :
8.30 am - Gathered at the Melting Pot for Buffet Breakfast
9.45 am - Gathered at the Go Kart for the Go Kart Competition
11.00 am - Went for Archery
12.oo noon - Gathered at the Melting Pot for Buffet Lunch
1.30 pm - Assembled to have group photo taking before leaving to Nilai
2 .15 pm - Leave for Nilai to meet up with the members of the Avante Club of KL
3. 45 pm - Convoyed to Nilai 3 for shopping (Nilai 3 - similar to our local Geylang Serai)
7.00 pm - Convoyed back to Resort
7.30 pm - Gathered at the Poolside for a BBQ Buffet Dinner (yummy! The most delicious and fulfilling meal of the stay!)
10.00 pm - Gathered at the Watering Hole for Drinks and Card Games (chor-dai-di)
1.00 am - zzzzz
Day 3 :
8.30 am - Gathered at the Melting Pot for Buffet Breakfast
10.30 am - Departed for Genting on our own
Tata!
For more information on the Eagle Ranch Resort:
http://www.eagleranch.com.my/
Genting
15 June (Sunday)
12.30 pm - Arrived at Genting First World Hotel (met Gavin and his family, so coincidence!)
3.30 pm - Met up with Brother and SIL for hotel check-in (T2 #25-950)
6.00 pm - Had Buffet Dinner at Kampong Restnt, Resort Hotel
7.30 pm - Free & Easy at Monte Carlo Casino (met Henry, my ex-colleague. what a coincidence too!)
4.30 am - Queued up at the FWH Registration counter to take queue number to check in for my another room after 12 noon (so kia-su!) cos the room (#25-950) which I booked through the website was only available for a one-night stay, so have to book through AXS to get a room for my 2nd night stay
5.00 am - zzzzzz
16 June (Monday)
9.30 am - Breakfast at FWH Cafe
12.00 noon - Checked out
1.00 pm - Checked in another hotel room (T2 #27 - 805)
1.30 pm - Free & Easy at Casino
6.00 pm - Went Mushroom Farm for Dinner
8.00 pm - Free & Easy at Casino
3.00 am - zzzzzz
17 June (Tuesday)
9.30 am - Breakfast at FWH Cafe
11.00 am - Checked out
12.30 pm - Departed for Malacca
2.45 pm - Arrived at Malacca
3.00 pm - Lunch at Ho Kee Hainan Chicken Rice and No. 88 Jonker Street for Assam Laksa and Chendol (Very yummy yummy!)
5.00 pm - Shopped at Tan Kim Hock
5.30 pm - Departed for home
9.00 pm - Arrived at Home
To conclude, the 5-day trip was really relaxing and wonderful! Looking forward to my coming trip with my colleagues to Malacca on this Friday! Yippeee!
Great Holidays for June 2008!
June 10, 2008
Watched a Movie
On Sunday, Dad suggested to bring GK out for the 'Kung Fu Panda' movie when he saw them got so amazed by the advertisement in the TV.
So, yesterday, after work, I went over to the nearby cinema to buy the show tickets for the showtime at 8.45 pm. GK were feeling excited and looking forward for Dad to return from work so that they could go for the movie after that.
That was the 3rd movie that they had watched (in cinema) so far. I remembered the first movie was 'Happy Feet', and the 2nd was 'Ant Bully'. And it has been 2 years since they stepped into the cinema theatre...
The show was really very hilarious and entertaining. I had not been having such a good laugh for so long, and I could see that everyone enjoyed the show. The show was screened in English with Chinese subtitles, but as by now, both GK could understand the dialogues, hence, they laughed out very loud whenever there were humorous dialogues said by the characters.
Upon reaching home after the show, G was so eager about drawing out the characters in the show, that he spent about an hour on it, and by then, it was almost bedtime.......
June 6, 2008
Not Again?!?!?!
You called me yesterday at 10.45 am, but I hung up your call. I am showing you what I really mean. I may seemed 'heartless', but my intuition told me that something must be happening, you were going to ask me for help again, am I right?
True indeed, your mum called me this afternoon during her lunch break, informing me that your house has been ‘泼漆‘ this morning. Good lah, you get famous liao, the whole block of neighbours know your name... I believed your dad must be mad at you.
According to your mum, you said you do not have any more dealings with those people, and already settled all the debts with them. And now that the police are informed also...
I am really not sure how much truth you are telling to your family and me... but please be responsible for what you have done!
该是时候学乖了吧！快醒醒吧！别再错下去了！
True indeed, your mum called me this afternoon during her lunch break, informing me that your house has been ‘泼漆‘ this morning. Good lah, you get famous liao, the whole block of neighbours know your name... I believed your dad must be mad at you.
According to your mum, you said you do not have any more dealings with those people, and already settled all the debts with them. And now that the police are informed also...
I am really not sure how much truth you are telling to your family and me... but please be responsible for what you have done!
该是时候学乖了吧！快醒醒吧！别再错下去了！
June 2, 2008
奕理表哥's Wedding Reception on 1 Jun 08
Attended my 表哥's wedding dinner last night and met up with all my long-time-never-see relatives. It was like a reunion... It was also the first time for most of the relatives to meet my boys, so could feel their 'excitement' when they talked to my boys as they tried to 'spot the difference' in them...
Btw, I really don't have any impression of this 表哥...Don't have any childhood memories of him and don't remember he got attend my wedding 9 years ago also... : P
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